#15: Into the Light

Ordinarily, our sister-in-law Wendy would have joined us as we explored Penticton.  She loved the town, knew it well, and had covered most of it on foot--or more accurately-- on wheels.  A former figure skater, she thought nothing of roller skating to work.

But last winter, Wendy was diagnosed with bile duct cancer and in August, just before we arrived, she had moved into a palliative care centre.  Her rapid recline was devastating to her and her family. And it seemed cruel and unfair.  Just after the disease was first discovered, she had had extensive surgery, and made a phenomenal recovery.  She had returned to work and her active lifestyle.  She was even swimming a few times a week. 

As a librarian,  I feel obliged to provide links to topics worthy of expansion.  So here goes: Bile Duct Cancer.  But honestly, does a lamb really want to know how many hungry wolves are hiding behind the next rock?   Suffice it to know that this cancer, like its pancreatic cousin, pounces and does not let go.

Wendy died a week ago, and the world has become a darker, colder place for Bob and their boys Paul and Chris.   She was gentle, loving and steadfast -- a truly good person.  We will all miss her very much.